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you're not delegating, you're offloading
there's a difference, and your team can feel it

There's a version of delegation that looks like trust but isn't... and most remote founders are doing it every week without realising - are you one of them?! ๐
In today's send:
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The difference between delegating and offloading (it matters more than you think)
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Why remote makes this harder and what specifically goes wrong
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How to hand off work in a way your team can actually run with
But firstโฆ
When you hand work off to your team, what tends to happen? |
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What delegation actually means
Delegation is giving someone ownership of an outcome.
Offloading is handing someone a task and keeping the thinking yourself.
The difference sounds small, yet the effect on your team is enormous.
When you offload, you already know how you want it done before you hand it over.
You check in often.
You course-correct early.
And your team member learns that their job is to execute your thinking, not to bring their own, which is fine if that's what you want, but it means nothing actually moves unless you're involved, and you will always be the bottleneck.
Most founders don't realise they're doing this.
It feels like delegation because the task left your plate.
But if the decision-making didn't go with it, it didn't really leave.
Why remote makes it worse
In an office, you can see work happening. You pick up on context without asking for it. You have a rough sense of where things are even when nobody tells you.
Remote removes all of that.
So when a founder delegates something remotely and can't see the work in progress, the natural response is to build in more check-ins, tighter briefs, more frequent updates, and before long the person you delegated to is spending more time reporting on the work than doing it.
It's not a trust problem.
It's a visibility problem that gets solved the wrong way.
And the fix isn't more check-insโฆ
It's a clearer brief at the start, agreement on what done looks like, and then actually leaving them alone to get there ๐
What real delegation looks like
Real delegation has three parts.
a clear outcome (not a list of tasks
the context they need to make good decisions along the way
an agreed point to check in, not a drip feed of updates.
The best test is whether your team member can make the next decision without you.
If the answer is no, you haven't delegated yet, you've just created a longer task list.
One thing that helps: when you hand something off, ask the person to tell you back what success looks like in their own words. Not to test them, just to see if your brief was actually clear. Most of the time, what comes back is different from what you had in your head, and catching that early is much cheaper than catching it when the work comes back wrong.
ATR tip of the week
Pick one thing you've been meaning to delegate this week and write it up properly before handing it over: the outcome you want, the context they need, and when you'll check in.
Send it as a written brief instead of a quick Slack message.
See how much less back and forth you get.
Forward this to a founder who says they want to delegate more but always ends up just doing it themselves ๐
Other reads:
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Most engagement data is based on office workers. Gallup's remote-specific research is different.
I leave you with something to think aboutโฆ
If someone on your team could explain your expectations back to you perfectly, is that because you briefed them well or because they've worked hard to figure it out themselves?
And after all of that, I hope you have a great week ahead ๐
Thanks,
Sam
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